Anonymous asked: Well, it's 2012 and of course there are a lot of weight loss resolutions out there. I have to say, I loved your body as a curvy girl and I'm sure I'd love it now though I have not seen you. I have always liked the idea of someone else being in control of my weight loss. I've always struggled with weight loss though I would not say that I am "fat." 5'9 160-something. I know you are experimenting with your dominant side and wanted to ask you how you would feel about being in control of my...

Well, thank you very much. I loved my curvy body too, but I love the way I feel in my body now that I weigh less. I love that I can run and do yoga and cross my legs…little things.

If you’re really interested in me helping you, anon, you’ll have to write to me without the anonymity. But in general, I find the idea of controlling other people’s eating and exercise habits rather arousing.